norsegays:

astrolope:

People being angry about ~dem gays~ on Target’s Facebook.

I just want to give my two cents on this and tell you a story.

A couple weeks ago, I was hired at Target. I have a job at Target. Not a big deal right?

It is a big deal because i’m a transman

It doesn’t take a genius to conclude that it’s hard for me, my brothers, and sisters to get a job. There are legal restraints regarding the job and if you don’t pass, it’s hard to be taken seriously at a job interview.

Right on the application, it asks what your preferred name is. It also asks if there is anything that target should know. I put the fact that I am a transman, expecting not to get a call because usually when you put that down, people will throw out the application. I got TWO interviews.

At the interview, they asked me about it. I told them I am on hormones and they told me that they didn’t care. Not in the sense that they don’t emotionally care, but that it didn’t matter. I was male and that’s all that mattered. They also told me that they give sex same couples benefits in states that do not recognize them as a married couple.

At my job orientation, I was not misgendered once. Even my supervisors who weren’t sure of my gender avoided pronoun use, which I found only happens when you’ve had pronoun training. They gave me a name tag with my preferred name and didn’t ask questions. I felt safe and respected, which is huge for a trans* person.

TLDR: Target is amazing not just for the LGB, but also the T. Shop there for the rest of your life.

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Anonymous asked: If you could change something about the world and about yourself, what would it be & why?

Respect.

For the world, I would like to see people respect each other and their environment more. Too often we are mean or rude to strangers, to people we love, to animals and the environment. 

For myself, I also want to work on respect. Respecting my body more and taking care of it. Respecting the hard work that I do. Appreciating and recognizing my own successes as opposed to focusing on “failures”. 

Happy Easter!

Happy Easter!

Deep cleaning my kitchen puts my China mask to good use. They’re Peace Corps issued in case of a bird flu outbreak, and we’re supposed to take them whenever we travel. @lemonywicket recognize this shirt? I wear it sometimes but the only person to recognize it was another volunteer. I guess Kid & Play wasn’t as popular in China as you thought!

Deep cleaning my kitchen puts my China mask to good use. They’re Peace Corps issued in case of a bird flu outbreak, and we’re supposed to take them whenever we travel. @lemonywicket recognize this shirt? I wear it sometimes but the only person to recognize it was another volunteer. I guess Kid & Play wasn’t as popular in China as you thought!

mymodernmet:

Lifestyle photographer Grace Chon recently turned the camera on her 10-month-old baby Jasper and their 7-year-old rescue dog Zoey, putting them side-by-side in the some of the most adorable portraits ever.

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fuckyeahmathandsciencetattoos:

"The nitrogen in our DNA, the calcium in our teeth, the iron in our blood, the carbon in our apple pies were made in the interiors of collapsing stars. We are made of starstuff.”
-Carl Sagan, Cosmos
The amino acid sequence on my arm is: Ile-Ale-Met-Ser-Thr-Ala-Arg-Ser-Thr-Sec-Phe-Phe, “I AM STARSTUFF”
Stay connected :)

I would probably marry this girl just because of her tattoo. 

fuckyeahmathandsciencetattoos:

"The nitrogen in our DNA, the calcium in our teeth, the iron in our blood, the carbon in our apple pies were made in the interiors of collapsing stars. We are made of starstuff.”

-Carl Sagan, Cosmos

The amino acid sequence on my arm is: Ile-Ale-Met-Ser-Thr-Ala-Arg-Ser-Thr-Sec-Phe-Phe, “I AM STARSTUFF”

Stay connected :)

I would probably marry this girl just because of her tattoo. 

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languageek:

The English Language Infographic found here

I wonder if they used the wrong “then” on purpose to make a point. Well said.   

Anonymous asked: What are some things you are really passionate about?

Life; my own and others’. Helping people and just overall being a compassionate human. The pursuit of knowledge. Elephants (can one be passionate about elephants? I feel that I am). Travel. Culture. Peanut butter.

Anonymous asked: Loving your blog, keep it up!

Thanks, anon! You will probably never see this because I took so long to respond to my messages. Worst blogger ever is meeee.

Anonymous asked: I feel like I live through your experiences in China when read your blog and see photos of your experience! Great stuff keep the updates coming!

Thanks for the encouragement! I’ve been working on a new post so hopefully you’ll see some new stuff soon!

Anonymous asked: What 3 countries(excluding China) would you hypothetically be willing to live in?

Ooh this is an interesting question. It would be hard to say for sure having not been to these countries, but I’ll play my romantic, idealist card. 

1. Somewhere in Southeast Asia, probably Thailand.

2. India. Even though I have no real idea what life would be like in India, the religions and the places call to me.

3. Spain. Ever since watching Vicky Cristina Barcelona I’ve had this fantasy of finding a beautiful Spanish couple who will invite me into their relationship and feed me wine and fruit and sing me songs in Spanish. 

I think education was the one that surprised me the most. And the number of Asians ^-^

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Anonymous asked: What do you believe stands between you and complete happiness? What are some things in this world that would really bring happiness to you?

I think the only thing that stands between me and complete happiness is myself. Happiness isn’t a feeling that can be achieved or gained, but something that is already within you. The tough part is figuring out how to cultivate that state when external factors seem to be pulling you to be unhappy. 

The Dalai Lama’s “The Art of Happiness" is a good read on this fact.
 

gods-warrior-princess:

zenpencils:

ERICA GOLDSON: Graduation speech

Oh wow.

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Anonymous asked: Did you feel prepared to teach ESL in China? What kind of background did you have teaching ESL- and how would you reccomend preparing for becoming an ESL teacher?

Before coming to China I taught ESL for two years in America. I felt really comfortable doing that and I think I did a good job, but working here has taught me so much more about teaching. Peace Corps China does a good job of training volunteers in teaching EFL but most of our training is aimed at teaching college level students. Since my students are low-level vocational high school students I don’t use a lot of the things I learned in training. I don’t feel like I’m the best teacher here, and a lot of my lessons fail. But I see little bits of progress here and there so some things must be working.

If you want to become an ESL teacher I recommend becoming TESOL certified. I’m not, but I’m planning on it after Peace Corps. If you can’t do that but are still planning on teaching English at home or abroad, here a few suggestions I just thought of:

1. Have open expectations. There’s no way to predict or prepare for what your class will be like unless you’re commissioned to teach a certain level or skill, and even then what you find might be very different from what you signed up for. Your students could be any level, and you’ll most likely have a range of levels in one class. They could have a lot of interest in English or very little. Opening your expectations will let you plan your classes around their needs vs. your interests or expectations for them.

2. Bring yourself into the classroom. Your students will probably find you somewhat interesting just based on the fact that you’re in front of the class. If you’re teaching abroad, there is no doubt they’ll want to know more about you. Bring some things from home that tell about who you are. You can turn it into an English lesson and they’ll respect you more once they know a little bit about you. Similarly, do activities that will allow you to get to know them.

3. Use the internet (or books). I read somewhere that one good thing about being a teacher is that you don’t have to reinvent the wheel. It’s true. There’s a lot of sharing of material that goes on on the internet, and it’s really helpful. This is mostly helpful when lesson planning, but you could start by researching some blogs or forums that will help you later. But be careful! Trolling teaching blogs is like checking your cold symptoms on WebMD. There’s so much information and so many possible lesson plans that it can get overwhelming. 

Hope this is helpful! If you’re a future Peace Corps Volunteer, don’t worry! Peace Corps will train you to be the best teacher you can be.